It’s only very recently that during a conversation with someone very close to me that I have realised that I myself was in such a situation as this, while in a long term relationship.
I know that some may find it strange that a man is actually saying this, (as in so many cases it is usually the man who is the abuser, not the woman), but it is the truth and something I have realised, learned from, come to terms with and accepted. I am not ashamed or embarrassed to admit that this was the case, or looking for sympathy.
I am submitting this post to highlight this growing and sadly frequent situation that so may people find themselves in, both Male and Female. I have done a little study work on this subject and have found the following listed below as a guide to anyone who may want to learn more about the subject or may find themselves in a similar situation.
The abuser may accuse the victim of being unfaithful if they discuss the opposite sex.
Sex as a Weapon
The abuser may guilt the victim into performing sexual acts to prove their love, or withhold sex as punishment.
The abuser may constantly criticise the victim’s looks or weight.
The abuser may not allow the victim to have access to the finances or make decisions such as where to live or what car to drive.
Information sourced from e-how.com